Work with me
I love sharing my knowledge and expertise — as well as the experience and wisdom accumulated from 31+ years of my own healing and recovery journey — with people who are ready to learn, grow, and transform their lives.
Here are 6 ways we can connect and work together
Join my membership community
Survive & Thrive Online Membership Community
Connect instantly with betrayed partners* from around the world in my confidential online community.
The Community includes twice monthly Live Q&A Calls with me, two weekly Community Hours where you can connect in real time with members, access to all archived Q&A Calls, bonus resources, and more.
Click here for all the details and to join online today!
*S&T Community is exclusively for women
Take one of my online courses
See all my online courses here.
Taming Triggers Solution Home Study Course: 7 Steps for Creating Calm in the Storm for Survivors of Betrayal Trauma
Get the 7 steps of the Taming Triggers Solution process delivered to your inbox starting today.
Click here for more details and to sign up!
Moving Beyond Betrayal Partner's Boundaries Course
Learn how to use the 5-Step Boundary Solution process to gain clarity, create more safety, and find out if your relationship can survive chronic sexual betrayal.
Click here for more details and sign up today!
Moving Beyond Betrayal Online Course for Clinicians & Coaches
Learn how I work with betrayed partners as they identify, create, establish, and maintain healthy, effective boundaries that are crucial for their healing and empowerment.
Click here for more details and to get updates.
Subscribe to my blog Survival Strategies for Betrayed Partners
Get expert advice and guidance by subscribing to my award-winning blog. I publish posts bi-weekly, and cover a wide variety of topics including formal therapeutic disclosure, non-negotiable boundaries, and the trust-rebuilding process.
Subscribe on the blog here to get my latest posts delivered straight to your inbox.
Listen to my podcast Beyond Bitchy: Mastering the Art of Boundaries
Beyond Bitchy is a weekly podcast hosted by Vicki that dispels the common misperception that personal and relationship boundaries are selfish, rigid, or controlling, and offers a fresh vision of personal limits as a source of freedom and liberation.
In each episode, Vicki shares expert information about how to identify, create, and establish effective personal and relationship boundaries so that you can get the space you need—and create the connection you crave.
Listen and subscribe here.
Attend a Reclaiming Wholeness Intensive
Reclaiming Wholeness
4-Day Family of Origin Intensive
If you want deep and lasting transformation – change at the core – going back to your roots [family of origin] is the place to start.
Click here to learn more, get 2020 workshop dates, and schedule a Discovery Call with Vicki.
Join one of my psychotherapy groups
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Partner’s Healing & Empowerment I (for betrayed partners in the first 1-3 years post-discovery/disclosure — women only)
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Partner's Healing & Empowerment II (for betrayed partners 3+ years post-discovery/disclosure — women only)
I am no longer taking new clients for individual or couples' therapy.
If you are seeking a qualified sex addiction or betrayal trauma therapist, please visit the International Institute for Trauma & Addiction Professionals (IITAP) at www.iitap.com, Society for the Advancement of Sexual Health (SASH) at www.sash.net or The Association for Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists (APSATS) at www.apsats.org.