Resources

• Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual Addiction
  Patrick Carnes, PhD
• Facing the Shadow: Starting Sexual and Relationship Recovery
  Patrick Carnes, PhD
• Sexual Reflections: A Workbook for Designing and Celebrating Your Sexual Health Plan
  Alexandra Katehakis, PhD
• Real Hope, True Freedom: Understanding and Coping with Sex Addiction
  Milton Magness DMin & Marsha Means, MA
• Cruise Control: Understanding Sex Addiction in Gay Men
  Robert Weiss
• The Porn Trap: The Essential Guide to Overcoming Problems Caused by Pornography
  Wendy Maltz, LCSW & Larry Maltz, LCSW
• Sex Addiction 101: A Basic Guide to Healing from Sex, Porn, and Love Addiction
  Robert Weiss
• Out of the Doghouse: A Step-by-Step Relationship-Saving Guide for Men Caught Cheating
  Robert Weiss

• Moving Beyond Betrayal: The 5-Step Boundary Solution for Partners of Sex Addicts
  Vicki Tidwell Palmer
• www.DearPeggy.com
  Extramarital Affairs Resource Center
• Intimate Treason: Healing the Trauma for Partners Confronting Sex Addiction
  Claudia Black & Cara Tripodi
• Deceived: Facing Sexual Betrayal, Lies and Secrets
  Claudia Black, Ph.D.
• Facing Heartbreak: Steps to Recovery for Partners of Sex Addicts
  Stefanie Carnes, Mari Lee, & Anthony Rodriguez
• Male Partners of Female Sex Addicts (MPOFSA) website
• Mending a Shattered Heart: A Guide for Partners of Sex Addicts
  Edited by Stefanie Carnes, Ph.D.
• Your Sexually Addicted Spouse
  Barbara Steffens, PhD & Marsha Means, MA

• Facing Codependence: What it is, Where it Comes From, How it Sabotages our Lives
  Pia Mellody
• Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself
  Melody Beattie
• Facing Love Addiction: Giving Yourself the Power to Change the Way You Love
  Pia Mellody

• I Don’t Want to Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression
  Terrence Real

• The Intimacy Factor: The Ground Rules for Overcoming the Obstacles to Truth, Respect, and Lasting Love
  Pia Mellody
• The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide From the Country’s Foremost Relationship Expert
  John Gottman, PhD
• The New Rules of Marriage: What You Need to Know to Make Love Work
  Terry Real
• The Couple’s Guide to Intimacy: How Sexual Reintegration Therapy Can Help Your Relationship Heal
  Drs. Bill & Ginger Bercaw, Psy.D., CSAT, CST
• Erotic Intelligence: Igniting Hot, Healthy Sex While in Recovery from Sex Addiction
  Alexandra Katehakis, MFT

• Mirror of Intimacy: Daily Reflections on Emotional and Erotic Intelligence
  Alexandra Katehakis & Tom Bluss
• The Language of Letting Go: Daily Meditations for Codependents
  Melody Beattie
• Answers in the Heart: Daily Meditations For Men And Women Recovering From Sex Addiction
  Anonymous

• Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma
  Peter A. Levine, PhD
• Healing Trauma: A Pioneering Program for Restoring the Wisdom of Your Body
  Peter A. Levine, PhD
  website: www.traumahealing.org

• The Miracle of Mindfulness: A Manual on Meditation
  Thich Nhat Hanh
• Mindfulness in Plain English
  Venerable Henepola Gunaratana

The online assessments and screening tests offered below are not a definitive determination of the presence of sexual addiction or compulsivity. If you are concerned that you may have a sexual addiction, you are advised to seek a professional specifically trained to treat sex addiction for a comprehensive evaluation.

• Am I a Sex Addict?
• Take the Internet Sex Screening Test
• Take the Sexual Addiction Screening Test (SAST)
• Take the Sexual Addiction Risk Assessment (SARA)
• Sex Addicts Anonymous
• Society for the Advancement of Sexual Health
• Gentle Path Press

• COSA 12-Step Recovery for Partners of Sex Addicts
• S-Anon 12-Step Recovery for Partners of Sex Addicts
• Infidelity Survivors Anonymous (ISA)
• Recovering Couples Anonymous (RCA)
• Sex Addicts Anonymous (SAA)
• Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous (SLAA)
• Alcoholics Anonymous (AA)
• Debtors Anonymous (DA)