Moving Beyond Betrayal
Partner's Boundaries Self-Study Course
Betrayed Partners and survivors of chronic infidelity experience dire consequences as a result of intimate partner betrayal.
As a betrayed partner you want to know:
Can a relationship survive chronic betrayal or addiction?
How can I know whether or not my spouse is still lying about his extra-marital activities?
Is it possible to ever trust him (or her) again?
Do I have a right to ask my spouse to engage in specific trust-restoring actions?
Is there anything I can do to make sure that my spouse can never deceive me again the way that he (or she) did in the past?
If you've asked yourself any—or most—of these questions, here's what I want you to know:
Having worked with betrayed partners for more than 10 years, I know that with information, guidance, and a community of support, you can survive — and even thrive — after the devastating discovery of long-term, chronic betrayal or sex addiction. Your emotional well-being requires that you educate yourself — and develop new skills for self-care and self-protection — as you confront the difficult and painful process of discovery, disclosure, and beyond.
In other words — you need boundaries.
About Vicki (Moving Beyond Betrayal Partner's Boundaries Course Facilitator)
I'm Vicki Tidwell Palmer, author of Moving Beyond Betrayal: The 5-Step Boundary Solution for Partners of Sex Addicts. Moving Beyond Betrayal is the only book for betrayed partners that addresses — in detail — how to identify, create, and maintain effective boundaries as an essential tool for surviving and healing from intimate partner betrayal. I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), and a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner.
My mission is to help partners move beyond betrayal into a life of clarity, power, and connection.
I love sharing my knowledge and expertise — as well as the experience and wisdom accumulated from 30+ years of my own healing and recovery journey — with people who are ready to learn, grow, and transform their lives.
Moving Beyond Betrayal Partner's Boundaries Course is specially designed for you — to help you learn how to identify, create, and maintain boundaries as a vital component of self-care and an indispensable tool for your healing and growth.
If you want to learn how to use boundaries to create safety and discover whether or not your relationship is salvageable, you must:
Learn the specific skills and tools that will help you regain trust and confidence in your own reality
Know the difference between authentic power, “power over,” and powerlessness.
Learn how to identify needs that aren't being met in your life and your relationship
Understand how to make effective requests of your partner—instead of using ultimatums, demands or threats.
Be willing to take action around what you have power over
Know how to evaluate the results of your boundary work to determine if your goal has been accomplished, and how to make course corrections when needed.
Know what to do when boundaries are violated or broken.
Unfortunately, betrayed partners often make the mistake of asking for either too little or too much from the person who betrayed them, or they get stuck in the victim position — paralyzing them from making meaningful progress.
Here’s one of the best-kept secrets about boundaries:
A partner’s ability to practice effective boundaries is the quickest route to finding out whether or not her (or his) relationship is salvageable.
With better boundaries, you’ll reduce the pain, disappointment, and chaos that go hand-in-hand with deception and the fog of addiction.
Moving Beyond Betrayal Partner’s Boundaries Course is ideal for partners who:
Have just experienced discovery or disclosure and need expert information and guidance about the boundary-setting process.
Are further along in their healing journey, but struggle to create or maintain effective boundaries.
Have read my book, Moving Beyond Betrayal: The 5-Step Boundary Solution for Partners of Sex Addicts, and want to take their knowledge about boundaries and the 5-Step Boundary Solution to the next level.
Have little — or no — understanding of the way boundaries work.
Experienced repeated boundary violations in childhood and are confused about — or struggle to claim — their right to set boundaries.
Are ready to take meaningful action to create greater safety, self-care, and improve their overall sense of well-being.
What's Included in the Partner's Boundaries Course*:
6 Modules with 24 Lessons
5+ hours of audio/video instruction, released weekly beginning February 22
The 5-Step Boundary Solution QuickStart Guide
The 5-Step Boundary Solution Clarifier
A fillable PDF to record your work.
*Course modules are completed at your own pace and on your own schedule.
With the knowledge, tools, and support you’ll get from Moving Beyond Betrayal Partner's Boundaries Course, you will:
Experience greater clarity and confidence in your ability to establish and maintain effective boundaries.
Reduce the level of chaos inherent in relationships impacted by chronic betrayal or sex addiction.
Feel more empowered and in control of your life.
Discover whether or not your relationship is salvageable.
Feel more empowered because you have the validation and information you need.
If you'd like to claim these results for yourself, invest in yourself by getting the Partner’s Boundaries Course today!
Because of what I learned in this Course, I feel much better equipped to make informed requests of my husband. —2017 Partner's Boundaries Course Participant
If we were to work one-on-one for the 24 lessons of the Partner's Boundaries Self-Study Course, your cost would be more than $1400!
But I want betrayed partners everywhere to have access to this vital information and expert guidance that replaces guessing and hoping with tools and strategies that I know — from years of experience — provide clarity and solid results.
The Partner's Boundaries Self-Study Course is ideal for partners who wants to get all of the modules, lessons, resources, PDF downloads, and complimentary eBook of Moving Beyond Betrayal included in the Online Course in a convenient, economical format.