Moving Beyond Betrayal Course for Clinicians & Coaches
Helping Betrayed Partners Move into Clarity, Power & Connection
Survivors of betrayal trauma experience dire consequences as a result of chronic sexual betrayal or addiction.
As a therapist or coach working with betrayed partners, you need to know:
The specific tools you can use in your work with partners to help them navigate their journey from trauma to trust.
How to help empower partners to make reasonable requests of their spouse for trust-building, relationship restoring actions.
How to support partners to focus on their self-care, and reduce pre-occupation with their spouse's behaviors and activities.
How to respectfully hold a traumatized partner accountable when she/he loses containment or is abusive.
If you've asked yourself any—or most—of these questions, here's what I want you to know:
The emotional well-being of betrayed partners requires that they be educated, and develop new skills for self-care and self-protection as they confront the difficult and painful process of discovery, disclosure, and beyond. Having worked with survivors of betrayal trauma for over 10 years, I know that it's crucial to support, validate, and guide them through a process that brings them greater clarity, power, and connection.
In other words — betrayed partners need boundaries.
About Vicki (Moving Beyond Betrayal Boundaries Course Facilitator)
I'm Vicki Tidwell Palmer, author of Moving Beyond Betrayal: The 5-Step Boundary Solution for Partners of Sex Addicts.
Moving Beyond Betrayal is the only book for betrayed partners that addresses—in detail—how to identify, create, and maintain effective boundaries as an essential tool for surviving and healing from intimate partner betrayal.
I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), and a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner in private practice in Houston, Texas.
My mission is to support survivors of betrayal trauma—and the therapists and coaches who work with them—to move beyond betrayal into a life of clarity, power, and connection.
I love sharing my knowledge and expertise — as well as the experience and wisdom accumulated from 30+ years of my own healing and recovery journey — with people who are ready to learn, grow, and transform their lives.
Moving Beyond Betrayal Boundaries Course for Clinicians and Coaches is specially designed for you — to help you support and guide betrayed partners in identifying, creating, and maintaining boundaries as a vital component of self-care and an indispensable tool for their healing and growth.
If you want to learn how to help betrayed partners use boundaries to create safety, foster their healing, and claim their power, you must:
Know the specific skills and tools that help partners regain trust and confidence in their own reality
Help partners understand the difference between authentic power, “power over,” and powerlessness
Know how to teach partners the fundamentals of making effective requests of their spouse—rather than using ineffective strategies like ultimatums, demands, or threats
Know how to help partners identify needs that aren't being met in their life and their primary relationship
Know how to support and coach partners in taking action around what they have power over
Know how to help partners make course corrections when boundaries don't work or are ineffective
Know how to help partners explore all their options, and increase their self-care, when boundaries are violated or broken
Moving Beyond Betrayal Boundaries Course is ideal for clinicians and coaches who:
Need more information and understanding about the fundamentals of boundary work.
Have recently started working with betrayed partners.
Have read my book, Moving Beyond Betrayal: The 5-Step Boundary Solution for Partners of Sex Addicts, and want to take their knowledge about boundaries and the 5-Step Boundary Solution to the next level and work directly with me.
Want the connection and support of other clinicians and coaches who are working with betrayed partners.
Struggle to support partners in taking meaningful action on their behalf.
Struggle to hold partners accountable for boundary-less or abusive behavior.
Unfortunately, therapists and coaches working with betrayed partners often struggle to find the right balance between addressing trauma symptoms and supporting partners in taking action for their healing and growth.
When partners ask too little of their unfaithful spouse, or make demands rather than requests, they can get stuck in the victim position — paralyzing them from making progress.
Here’s one of the best-kept secrets about boundaries:
A betrayed partner’s ability to practice effective boundaries exponentially increases her self-care, reduces chaos in the couples' relationship, and speeds up the process of finding out whether or not her (or his) relationship can be saved.
When partners understand how boundaries work—and put them into practice—they eliminate the pain, disappointment, and crazy-making that go hand-in-hand with living in the fog of deception or addiction.
What's Included in the Clinicians & Coaches Boundaries Course*:
4 Modules with 21 Lessons (Audio & Video) released weekly
The 5-Step Boundary Solution QuickStart Guide
The 5-Step Boundary Solution Clarifier fillable PDF
90-Minute Live Q&A Call with Vicki (recorded and available within 24 hours for anyone who can't join the live call)
“Mini Online Q&A Consultation” where you can get laser consultation before the Live Q&A Call
Online confidential community where you can connect with other Course participant colleagues (and Vicki) for feedback and consultation.
8 Select audio excerpts from Moving Beyond Betrayal: The 5-Step Boundary Solution for Partners of Sex Addicts read by the author.
6 Select audio/video excerpts from Moving Beyond Betrayal Partner's Boundaries Course where Vicki teaches partners how to use the five steps of the 5-Step Boundary Solution process.
*Except for the Live Q&A Call, all modules are completed at your own pace and on your own schedule.
With the knowledge, tools, and support you’ll get from Moving Beyond Betrayal Boundaries Course, you will:
Experience greater confidence in your ability to work with survivors of betrayal trauma.
Have greater confidence in your ability to help partners identify, create, and maintain effective boundaries.
Know how to identify where in the boundary setting process your clients are getting stuck or stalled—and what to do.
Know how to validate a partner's trauma compassionately, while supporting them in taking meaningful action on their behalf.
Know how to help partners reduce the level of chaos inherent in relationships impacted by serial infidelity and intimate partner betrayal.
If you'd like to claim these results for yourself, I'd love for you to join me for the next Clinicians & Coaches Course!
Moving Beyond Betrayal Clinicians & Coaches Online Course gave me new language to use with betrayed partners as I'm teaching them how to establish healthy boundaries after they've discovered their spouse was unfaithful.
It was especially helpful to learn how to talk to clients about making requests, and how to stop making demands and issuing ultimatums—which ultimately don't work anyway.
Thanks Vicki for this great course!Stephen Sbanotto
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What happens after you register for Moving Beyond Betrayal Boundaries Online Course for Clinicians & Coaches?
You’ll get a welcome email with more information and details about accessing the Course (including the date for the Live Q&A Call) once it launches.
Module 1 will be released on the first day of the course, and the following 3 Modules will be released weekly thereafter. You’ll get immediate access to the online community forum where you can begin by personalizing your profile settings and connecting with other colleagues in the Course.