Partners moving beyond betrayal must have the knowledge, skills, and tools to move beyond the confusion, despair, and hopelessness of betrayal, and into greater clarity and confidence.
It is so important that you:
Feel validated and empowered to own your right to ask for what you need and want in your relationship.
Begin to break free of the false, painful belief that the deception and betrayal you have endured was your fault.
Increase your current set of skills and capabilities for better self-care and boundaries.
Experience greater clarity and confidence in your ability to establish and maintain effective boundaries.
Reduce the level of chaos inherent in relationships impacted by chronic betrayal or sex addiction.
Discover whether or not your relationship is salvageable.
Get relief from Betrayal Trauma Triggers by:
Knowing how to take action around trauma triggers you have the power to reduce or stop and how to make requests to eliminate triggers.
Knowing how to eliminate “toxic thoughts” that make trauma triggers worse.
Experience the healing benefits of Formal Therapeutic Disclosure & Polygraph by:
Understanding the role of Formal Therapeutic Disclosure (FTD) in healing relationships impacted by chronic infidelity and sex addiction.
Knowing how to create a self-care and safety plan for before, during and after your FTD session.
Understanding how polygraph is used in relationships impacted by sex addiction as a tool for rebuilding trust.
Includes 3 Online Courses + 11 Recorded presentations + 17 Workshops + Extensive Resources for Partners Moving Beyond Betrayal
What’s Included
The Complete Moving Beyond Betrayal Library
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Survive & Thrive Blueprint Mini-Course
The 5 essentials for healing every betrayed partner needs.
Partner’s Boundaries Course
Your complete guide to identifying, creating, and maintaining effective boundaries after discovery.
Taming Triggers Solution Course
7 steps for managing and eliminating painful triggers caused by betrayal.
Thriving After Betrayal Workshops
17 Live recorded workshops taught by Vicki covering a variety of topics for partners moving beyond betrayal.
Clarity Circle Masterclass Replays
9 Clarity Circle Masterclass replays where Vicki does a deep-dive into a specific topic. Each masterclass includes Q&A session.
Formal Therapeutic Disclosure Basics
110-minute presentation on the fundamentals of the Formal Therapeutic Disclosure process for rebuilding trust after betrayal.
The Role of Polygraph Presentation
85-minute presentation with Vicki & Stephen Cabler (Polygraph Examiner) that will show you how polygraph is utilized as a tool for rebuilding and restoring trust.
Moving Beyond Betrayal eBook
A go-to guide on how to confront, heal, and thrive after betrayal.
Extensive Resource Library
Select guides, handouts, tools, and other resources for betrayed partners and spouses.
Hi, I'm so glad you're here!
I'm Vicki Tidwell Palmer, author of Moving Beyond Betrayal. I created the Moving Beyond Betrayal Complete Library to to support you on your courageous journey from trauma to trust.
The MBB Complete Library contains the best of what I have offered and taught to partners moving beyond betrayal (and their spouses) over the past 14+ years.
The 3 online courses, 17 workshops, and 11 masterclasses (and more) will give you the knowledge, skills, and tools for surviving, and ultimately thriving after the discovery of chronic infidelity or a spouse's addiction.
Whether you have just experienced discovery or disclosure, or you're further along in your healing journey, the MBB Library is an indispensable tool for your healing.
About me
I am the best-selling author of Moving Beyond Betrayal, host of the Beyond Bitchy Podcast: Mastering the Art of Boundaries (2018-2021). My blog, Thriving After Betrayal, was ranked one of the Top 15 Infidelity Blogs and Websites to Follow in 2019.
My latest project, unveiled on International Women’s Day 2020, is The Radiant Threefold Path | Return+Reclaim+Receive, is where I support women as they rediscover their most authentic truth and re-write their story so that they can feel loved, worthy, and treasured from the inside out.
“The sexual betrayal partners of sex addicts experience is extremely difficult to overcome. It’s easy to get stuck in the victim position, resentment, and reactivity. This splendid work by Vicki Tidwell Palmer provides a step-by-step process that will help partners of sex addicts move out of the trauma and into a more profound sense of intimacy with their partners. A wonderful read!”
— Pia Mellody, Senior Clinical Advisor for The Meadows and author of Facing Codependence, Facing Love Addiction, and The Intimacy Factor
What’s included in the Complete Moving Beyond Betrayal Library
Survive & Thrive Blueprint Mini-Course
5 Sessions | 6.5 Hours
With a roadmap for healing, you can survive — and even thrive — after the devastating discovery of chronic sexual betrayal or a spouse's addiction.
S&T Blueprint Mini-Course will teach you the 5 Essentials for Healing every partner moving beyond betrayal needs to know.
What you will learn:
After completing this course, you will:
VALUE: $89
Moving Beyond Betrayal Partner’s Boundaries Course
24 Lessons | 5+ Hours
(+5 Hours of Bonus Live Q&A Replays)
Betrayed Partners and survivors of chronic infidelity experience dire consequences as a result of intimate partner betrayal.
You need information, guidance, and a community of support, you can survive — and even thrive — after the devastating discovery of long-term, chronic betrayal or sex addiction. Your emotional well-being requires that you educate yourself — and develop new skills for self-care and self-protection — as you confront the difficult and painful process of discovery, disclosure, and beyond.
In other words — you need boundaries.
Read more about MBB Partner's Boundaries Course below . . . .
What you will learn:
After completing this course, you will:
VALUE: $299
Taming Triggers Solution Course
11 Lessons | 1.25+ Hours
(+7 Hours of Bonus Live Q&A Replays)
Taming Triggers Solution will teach you the 7 steps to manage or eliminate the painful triggers that are an inevitable consequence of betrayal trauma.
With specific, actionable tools you can tame betrayal trauma triggers so that you can feel safer and more at ease in your everyday life.
Read more about Taming Triggers Solution below . . . .
What you will learn:
VALUE: $225
Thriving After Betrayal Workshops
17 Workshops | 17+ Hours
Learn how to prepare a betrayed partner Impact Statement, how to experience more validation and empathy from your spouse, how to create a high-quality self-care practice, how to manage betrayal trauma triggers, and more. . .
Each workshop includes a presentation by Vicki, suggested action steps related to the workshop topic, and audience Q&As.
Read more about Thriving After Betrayal Workshops below . . . .
Topic covered in Thrive Workshops:
VALUE: $1299
Clarity Circle Masterclass Replays
9 Sessions | 15+ Hours
Clarity Circle Masterclass topics include boundaries, balancing giving and receiving, the gifts of letting go, self-care, and Formal Therapeutic Disclosure.
Each masterclass replay includes live audience Q&A, suggested action steps, and resources.
VALUE: $1197
Formal Therapeutic Disclosure (FTD) Basics for Betrayed Partners
110-Minute Special Presentation
Learn the role of FTD in healing relationships impacted by chronic infidelity and sex addiction, including what kind of information you can expect to receive.
This 110-minute presentation will teach you the fundamentals of a sound Formal Therapeutic Disclosure (“FTD”) process.
Read more about Formal Therapeutic Disclosure Basics for Betrayed Partners below . . . .
What you will learn:
VALUE: $29
The Role of Polygraph in Relationships Impacted by Chronic Sexual Betrayal
85-Minute Special Presentation
Learn everything you need to know about the use of polygraph for relationships impacted by chronic sexual betrayal — specialized information not available in one place anywhere else.
This 85-minute pre-recorded presentation with Vicki and Stephen Cabler, Licensed Polygraph Examiner, will give you solid, expert information about how you and your spouse can utilize polygraph as a tool for rebuilding and restoring trust.
Read more about The Role of Polygraph in Relationships Impacted by Chronic Sexual Betrayal below . . . .
What you will learn:
VALUE: $29
Moving Beyond Betrayal eBook
Partners who have experienced chronic betrayal or a spouse's addiction experience dire consequences from the devastating impact of serial infidelity.
You need the very best in self-care and self-protection as you navigate the difficult and painful process through discovery, disclosure, and beyond. In other words—you need boundaries.
Moving Beyond Betrayal:The 5-Step Boundary Solution for Partners of Sex Addicts is the first book written for partners affected by chronic sexual betrayal that guides you through a step-by-step process of identifying, creating, and maintaining personal and relationship boundaries as a vital component of self-care, and an indispensable tool for your healing, growth, and thriving.
Read the book on your favorite e-reader, like Kindle, Nook, Kobo, or iPad. You can also read the book on your smart phone using any book app.
VALUE: $12
Unlimited Access to Extensive Resource Library
Downloadable Information and resources including impact letter outline, partners' polygraph preparation worksheet, guidelines for couples check-ins, travel plan guidelines, and more!
VALUE: $200
Investment Options
1 Installment
$497
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3 Installments
$197
per month
Immediate & Permanent Access
*When you choose the 3-installment option, you receive access to Survive & Thrive Blueprint Mini-Course immediately after purchase. Taming Triggers Solution Course is released to you after the second installment, and Partner's Boundaries Course is released once final installment is received.
| Thing | Value |
|---|---|
| Survive & Thrive Blueprint Mini-Course | $89 |
| Moving Beyond Betrayal Partner’s Boundaries Course | $299 |
| Taming Triggers Solution Course | $225 |
| Thriving After Betrayal Workshops | $1299 |
| Clarity Circle Masterclass Replays | $1197 |
| Formal Therapeutic Disclosure Basics for Betrayed Partners | $29 |
| The Role of Polygraph in Relationships Impacted by Chronic Sexual Betrayal | $ 29 |
| Moving Beyond Betrayal eBook | $ 12 |
| Extensive Resource Library | $200 |
| TOTAL VALUE | $3,379 |
| For ONLY | $497 |
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The Complete Moving Beyond Betrayal Library
Investment Options
1 Installment
$497
Save $94
OR
3 Installments
$197
per month
Immediate & Permanent Access
*When you choose the 3-installment option, you receive access to Survive & Thrive Blueprint Mini-Course immediately after purchase. Taming Triggers Solution Course is released to you after the second installment, and Partner's Boundaries Course is released once final installment is received.
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The Complete Moving Beyond Betrayal Library
Investment Options
1 Installment
$497
Save $94
OR
3 Installments
$197
per month
Immediate & Permanent Access
*When you choose the 3-installment option, you receive access to Survive & Thrive Blueprint Mini-Course immediately after purchase. Taming Triggers Solution Course is released to you after the second installment, and Partner's Boundaries Course is released once final installment is received.