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You can survive—and and even thrive—after intimate partner betrayal.

Partners moving beyond betrayal must have the knowledge, skills, and tools to move beyond the confusion, despair, and hopelessness of betrayal, and into greater clarity and confidence.

It is so important that you:

  • Feel validated and empowered to own your right to ask for what you need and want in your relationship.

  • Begin to break free of the false, painful belief that the deception and betrayal you have endured was your fault.

  • Increase your current set of skills and capabilities for better self-care and boundaries.

  • Experience greater clarity and confidence in your ability to establish and maintain effective boundaries.

  • Reduce the level of chaos inherent in relationships impacted by chronic betrayal or sex addiction.

  • Discover whether or not your relationship is salvageable.

Get relief from Betrayal Trauma Triggers by:

  • Knowing how to take action around trauma triggers you have the power to reduce or stop and how to make requests to eliminate triggers.

  • Knowing how to eliminate “toxic thoughts” that make trauma triggers worse.

Experience the healing benefits of Formal Therapeutic Disclosure & Polygraph by:

  • Understanding the role of Formal Therapeutic Disclosure (FTD) in healing relationships impacted by chronic infidelity and sex addiction.

  • Knowing how to create a self-care and safety plan for before, during and after your FTD session.

  • Understanding how polygraph is used in relationships impacted by sex addiction as a tool for rebuilding trust.

You deserve the validation information, and support to move more confidently on your courageous journey from trauma to trust.

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The Complete Moving Beyond Betrayal Library

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Includes 3 Online Courses + 11 Recorded presentations + 17 Workshops + Extensive Resources for Partners Moving Beyond Betrayal

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The Complete Moving Beyond Betrayal Library

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Survive & Thrive Blueprint Mini-Course

The 5 essentials for healing every betrayed partner needs.

Partner’s Boundaries Course

Your complete guide to identifying, creating, and maintaining effective boundaries.

Taming Triggers Solution Course

7 steps for managing and eliminating painful triggers caused by betrayal.

Thriving After Betrayal Workshops

Live recorded workshops taught by Vicki covering a variety of topics for betrayed partners.

Clarity Circle Masterclass Replays

Clarity Circle Masterclass replays where Vicki does a deep-dive into a specific topic. Each masterclass includes Q&A session.

Formal Therapeutic Disclosure Basics

Learn the fundamentals of the Formal Therapeutic Disclosure process for rebuilding trust after betrayal.

The Role of Polygraph Presentation

How to utilize polygraph as a tool for rebuilding and restoring trust.

Moving Beyond Betrayal eBook

A go-to guide on how to confront, heal, and thrive after betrayal.

Extensive Resource Library

Select guides, handouts, tools, and other resources for betrayed partners and spouses.

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Survive & Thrive Blueprint Mini-Course

The 5 essentials for healing every betrayed partner needs.

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Partner’s Boundaries Course

Your complete guide to identifying, creating, and maintaining effective boundaries after discovery.

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Taming Triggers Solution Course

7 steps for managing and eliminating painful triggers caused by betrayal.

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Thriving After Betrayal Workshops

17 Live recorded workshops taught by Vicki covering a variety of topics for partners moving beyond betrayal.

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Clarity Circle Masterclass Replays

9 Clarity Circle Masterclass replays where Vicki does a deep-dive into a specific topic. Each masterclass includes Q&A session.

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Presentation on Formal Therapeutic Disclosure in Sexual Betrayal

Formal Therapeutic Disclosure Basics

110-minute presentation on the fundamentals of the Formal Therapeutic Disclosure process for rebuilding trust after betrayal.

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Presentation on The Role of Polygraph in Chronic Sexual Betrayal

The Role of Polygraph Presentation

85-minute presentation with Vicki & Stephen Cabler (Polygraph Examiner) that will show you how polygraph is utilized as a tool for rebuilding and restoring trust.

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Moving Beyond Betrayal eBook

A go-to guide on how to confront, heal, and thrive after betrayal.

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Extensive Resource Library

Select guides, handouts, tools, and other resources for betrayed partners and spouses.

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Hi, I'm so glad you're here!

I'm Vicki Tidwell Palmer, author of Moving Beyond Betrayal. I created the Moving Beyond Betrayal Complete Library to to support you on your courageous journey from trauma to trust.

The MBB Complete Library contains the best of what I have offered and taught to partners moving beyond betrayal (and their spouses) over the past 14+ years.

The 3 online courses, 17 workshops, and 11 masterclasses (and more) will give you the knowledge, skills, and tools for surviving, and ultimately thriving after the discovery of chronic infidelity or a spouse's addiction.

Whether you have just experienced discovery or disclosure, or you're further along in your healing journey, the MBB Library is an indispensable tool for your healing.

About me

I am the best-selling author of Moving Beyond Betrayal, host of the Beyond Bitchy Podcast: Mastering the Art of Boundaries (2018-2021). My blog, Thriving After Betrayal, was ranked one of the Top 15 Infidelity Blogs and Websites to Follow in 2019.

My latest project, unveiled on International Women’s Day 2020, is The Radiant Threefold Path | Return+Reclaim+Receive, is where I support women as they rediscover their most authentic truth and re-write their story so that they can feel loved, worthy, and treasured from the inside out.

“The sexual betrayal partners of sex addicts experience is extremely difficult to overcome. It’s easy to get stuck in the victim position, resentment, and reactivity. This splendid work by Vicki Tidwell Palmer provides a step-by-step process that will help partners of sex addicts move out of the trauma and into a more profound sense of intimacy with their partners. A wonderful read!”

— Pia Mellody, Senior Clinical Advisor for The Meadows and author of Facing Codependence, Facing Love Addiction, and The Intimacy Factor

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What’s included in the Complete Moving Beyond Betrayal Library

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Survive & Thrive Blueprint Mini-Course

5 Sessions | 6.5 Hours

With a roadmap for healing, you can survive — and even thrive — after the devastating discovery of chronic sexual betrayal or a spouse's addiction.

S&T Blueprint Mini-Course will teach you the 5 Essentials for Healing every partner moving beyond betrayal needs to know.

What you will learn:

  • The 5 Essentials for Healing Every Partner Moving Beyond Betrayal Needs to Know
  • The practice of exquisite self-care—turning your attention toward yourself and away from over-focusing on the person who betrayed you.
  • Expert, specialized information about what you can reasonably expect from your spouse, your rights as a partner, formal therapeutic disclosure, and more.
  • Knowing how to discover and voice your needs and wants, and how identify, create, and maintain healthy and effective boundaries.

After completing this course, you will:

  • Gain clarity and confidence through feeling better informed about the healing process, your rights as a partner, and what you can expect from an unfaithful spouse who is walking a solid path of recovery.
  • Feel validated and empowered to own your right to ask for what you need and want in your relationship.
  • Increase your current set of skills and capabilities for better self-care and boundaries.
  • Begin to break free of the false, painful belief that the deception and betrayal you have endured was your fault.
What's Included
  • 5 Video Classes (Prerecorded)
  • Hosted by Vicki Tidwell Palmer
  • Playback of a Q&A where Vicki answers questions from the live audience
  • Immediate and Lifetime access via a member account after purchase

VALUE: $89

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Moving Beyond Betrayal Partner’s Boundaries Course

24 Lessons | 5+ Hours
(+5 Hours of Bonus Live Q&A Replays)

Betrayed Partners and survivors of chronic infidelity experience dire consequences as a result of intimate partner betrayal.

You need information, guidance, and a community of support, you can survive — and even thrive — after the devastating discovery of long-term, chronic betrayal or sex addiction. Your emotional well-being requires that you educate yourself — and develop new skills for self-care and self-protection — as you confront the difficult and painful process of discovery, disclosure, and beyond.

In other words — you need boundaries.

Read more about MBB Partner's Boundaries Course below . . . .

What you will learn:

  • Specific skills and tools that will help you regain trust and confidence in your own reality
  • The difference between authentic power, “power over,” and powerlessness
  • How to make effective requests of your partner—instead of using ultimatums, demands or threats
  • How to take action around what you have power over
  • How to identify needs that aren't being met in your life and your relationship
  • How to evaluate the results of your boundary work to determine if your goal has been accomplished, and how to make course corrections when needed
  • What to do when boundaries are violated or broken

After completing this course, you will:

  • Experience greater clarity and confidence in your ability to establish and maintain effective boundaries.
  • Reduce the level of chaos inherent in relationships impacted by chronic betrayal or sex addiction.
  • Feel more empowered and in control of your life.
  • Discover whether or not your relationship is salvageable.
  • Feel more empowered because you have the validation and information you need.
What's Included
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6 Modules with 24 Lessons

5+ hours of audio/video instruction. All lessons are pre-recorded, so you can work at your pace and on your schedule.

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The 5-Step Boundary Solution QuickStart Guide

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The 5-Step Boundary Solution Clarifier

A fillable eWorkbook to record your boundary work

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Electronic copy of my book

Moving Beyond Betrayal: The 5-Step Boundary Solution for Partners of Sex Addicts, plus more than 10 bonus handouts

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From Moving Beyond Betrayal: The 5-Step Boundary Solution for Partners of Sex Addicts read by Vicki

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Access to more than 5 hours of Live Q&A Call Replays!

Lifetime Access

Unlimited, permanent access to all course materials. Listen when convenient for you, as many times as you like!

VALUE: $299

Because of what I learned in this Course, I feel much better equipped to make informed requests of my husband.

— 2017 Partner's Boundaries Course Participant

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Taming Triggers Solution Course

11 Lessons | 1.25+ Hours
(+7 Hours of Bonus Live Q&A Replays)

Taming Triggers Solution will teach you the 7 steps to manage or eliminate the painful triggers that are an inevitable consequence of betrayal trauma.

With specific, actionable tools you can tame betrayal trauma triggers so that you can feel safer and more at ease in your everyday life.

Read more about Taming Triggers Solution below . . . .

What you will learn:

  • How to take action around triggers you have the power to reduce or stop
  • Why some triggers are more powerful than others
  • How to eliminate “toxic thoughts” that make your triggers worse
  • How to make requests to eliminate triggers
  • What to do about unavoidable triggers
What's Included
  • 11 Pre-recorded Video & Audio Lessons hosted by Vicki
  • 7+ hours of Live Q&A Call Replays
  • Downloadable Taming Triggers Solution Journal to record your work
  • Immediate and permanent access via a member site. Listen when convenient for you, as many times as you like!

VALUE: $225

My betrayal trauma triggers reduced by 70% after taking this course! 

— R., Partner Moving Beyond Betrayal

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Thriving After Betrayal Workshops

17 Workshops | 17+ Hours

Learn how to prepare a betrayed partner Impact Statement, how to experience more validation and empathy from your spouse, how to create a high-quality self-care practice, how to manage betrayal trauma triggers, and more. . .

Each workshop includes a presentation by Vicki, suggested action steps related to the workshop topic, and audience Q&As.

Read more about Thriving After Betrayal Workshops below . . . .

Topic covered in Thrive Workshops:

  • Self Care
  • How to Get Needs and Wants Met
  • How to Practice the Listening Boundary
  • Rebuilding Trust after Betrayal
  • How to When It’s Time to Leave
  • How to Prepare an Impact Statement
  • Processing Fear
  • Finding Balance
  • Using "Collaborative Transparency" to Rebuild Trust
  • The 3 Lies Partners Believe (And How to Turn Them Around)

VALUE: $1299

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Clarity Circle Masterclass Replays

9 Sessions | 15+ Hours

Clarity Circle Masterclass topics include boundaries, balancing giving and receiving, the gifts of letting go, self-care, and Formal Therapeutic Disclosure.

Each masterclass replay includes live audience Q&A, suggested action steps, and resources.

VALUE: $1197

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Formal Therapeutic Disclosure (FTD) Basics for Betrayed Partners

110-Minute Special Presentation

Learn the role of FTD in healing relationships impacted by chronic infidelity and sex addiction, including what kind of information you can expect to receive.

This 110-minute presentation will teach you the fundamentals of a sound Formal Therapeutic Disclosure (“FTD”) process.

Read more about Formal Therapeutic Disclosure Basics for Betrayed Partners below . . . .

What you will learn:

  • The role of FTD in healing relationships impacted by chronic infidelity and sex addiction
  • What you need to know before your FTD session
  • What you have a right to ask for in a FTD
  • What to expect on the day of FTD
  • Self-care tips for before, during, and after your FTD session
  • The role of polygraph in the FTD process
What's Included
  • 110-Minute Pre-recorded Presentation hosted by Vicki
  • Includes Q&A session where Vicki answers questions submitted from the live audience
  • Immediate and permanent access via a member site. Listen when convenience for you, as many times as you like!

VALUE: $29

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The Role of Polygraph in Relationships Impacted by Chronic Sexual Betrayal

85-Minute Special Presentation

Learn everything you need to know about the use of polygraph for relationships impacted by chronic sexual betrayal — specialized information not available in one place anywhere else.

This 85-minute pre-recorded presentation with Vicki and Stephen Cabler, Licensed Polygraph Examiner, will give you solid, expert information about how you and your spouse can utilize polygraph as a tool for rebuilding and restoring trust.

Read more about The Role of Polygraph in Relationships Impacted by Chronic Sexual Betrayal below . . . .

What you will learn:

  • How polygraph is used in relationships impacted by sex addiction as a tool for rebuilding trust
  • How polygraph works
  • The reliability of polygraphs
  • Can someone "fool" a polygraph?
  • How many questions you can ask in a polygraph exam
  • What is the difference between a baseline (or Formal Therapeutic Disclosure polygraph) and an after-care polygraph?
  • What polygraph "schedule" is recommended after an initial baseline/disclosure polygraph
  • How do you find a reputable polygraph examiner?
What's Included
  • 85-Minute Pre-recorded Presentation hosted by Vicki Tidwell Palmer and Stephen Cabler, Licensed Polygraph Examiner
  • Immediate and Lifetime access via a member site. Listen when convenience for you, as many times as you like!

VALUE: $29

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Moving Beyond Betrayal eBook

Partners who have experienced chronic betrayal or a spouse's addiction experience dire consequences from the devastating impact of serial infidelity.

You need the very best in self-care and self-protection as you navigate the difficult and painful process through discovery, disclosure, and beyond. In other words—you need boundaries.

Moving Beyond Betrayal:The 5-Step Boundary Solution for Partners of Sex Addicts is the first book written for partners affected by chronic sexual betrayal that guides you through a step-by-step process of identifying, creating, and maintaining personal and relationship boundaries as a vital component of self-care, and an indispensable tool for your healing, growth, and thriving.

Read the book on your favorite e-reader, like Kindle, Nook, Kobo, or iPad. You can also read the book on your smart phone using any book app.

VALUE: $12

This is one of the best self help books I have ever read! Not only does it validate victims of betrayal, but it provides the tools needed to move forward-whether one chooses to leave the relationship, or rebuild. I will use the lessons that I learned from this book for the rest of my life in ALL relationships. This book truly teaches one how to have self respect through setting healthy and realistic boundaries. It did more for me than therapy.

—KL, Partner Moving Beyond Betrayal

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Unlimited Access to Extensive Resource Library

Downloadable Information and resources including impact letter outline, partners' polygraph preparation worksheet, guidelines for couples check-ins, travel plan guidelines, and more!

VALUE: $200

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$497
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3 Installments
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Immediate & Permanent Access

*When you choose the 3-installment option, you receive access to Survive & Thrive Blueprint Mini-Course immediately after purchase. Taming Triggers Solution Course is released to you after the second installment, and Partner's Boundaries Course is released once final installment is received.

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Survive & Thrive Blueprint Mini-Course$89
Moving Beyond Betrayal Partner’s Boundaries Course$299
Taming Triggers Solution Course$225
Thriving After Betrayal Workshops$1299
Clarity Circle Masterclass Replays$1197
Formal Therapeutic Disclosure Basics for Betrayed Partners$29
The Role of Polygraph in Relationships Impacted by Chronic Sexual Betrayal$ 29
Moving Beyond Betrayal eBook$ 12
Extensive Resource Library$200
TOTAL VALUE$3,379
For ONLY$497

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The Complete Moving Beyond Betrayal Library

Investment Options

1 Installment
$497
Save $94

OR

3 Installments
$197
per month

Buy Now

Immediate & Permanent Access

*When you choose the 3-installment option, you receive access to Survive & Thrive Blueprint Mini-Course immediately after purchase. Taming Triggers Solution Course is released to you after the second installment, and Partner's Boundaries Course is released once final installment is received.

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Frequently asked questions:

How long do I have access to the courses, presentations, and downloadable resources? Expand

You have permanent access to all materials and resources in the Complete MBB Library. Access and listen when convenient for you, as many times as you like!

What happens after I buy? Expand

After you sign up, you will be redirected to a private access page where you can access the MBB Library immediately.*

You will also receive a welcome email with recommendations about how to get started with the MBB Library.

*If you are paying with the 3-payment option, you will receive access to Survive & Thrive Blueprint Mini-Course immediately. Taming Triggers Solution Course will be released to you after your second installment, and the Partner's Boundaries Course will released once your final installment is received. You will receive an email when each course is released.

How do I access my courses, presentations, and resources? Expand

When you purchase the MBB Library, you will create a member account with a username and password. Be sure to save your log in information in a secure place.

You can log in using your log in credentials at any time using this link:

https://vickitidwellpalmer.com/member/login/

You get permanent access to the MBB Library.

What if I already own one of these courses, but I want to purchase MBB Library? Expand

If you previously purchased any of the following courses or presentations, please email us (questions@vickitidwellpalmer.com), about special offers exclusively for former "investors."

  • Partner's Boundaries Course
  • Taming Triggers Solution Online Course
  • Formal Therapeutic Disclosure Presentation
  • Polygraph Presentation
  • Formal Therapeutic Disclosure/Polygraph Presentation Bundle

The Complete Moving Beyond Betrayal Library

Investment Options

1 Installment
$497
Save $94

OR

3 Installments
$197
per month

Buy Now

Immediate & Permanent Access

*When you choose the 3-installment option, you receive access to Survive & Thrive Blueprint Mini-Course immediately after purchase. Taming Triggers Solution Course is released to you after the second installment, and Partner's Boundaries Course is released once final installment is received.

The most thorough resource for partners. Navigating through betrayal trauma is a nightmare.

—Jessie, Partner Moving Beyond Betrayal

You need the validation information, and support to move more confidently on your courageous journey from trauma to trust.

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Moving Beyond Betrayal & Boundaries

The Book, “Moving Beyond Betrayal”

The 5-Step Boundary Solution Clarifier

Complete Moving Beyond Betrayal Library

Reading & Online Resources

Beyond Bitchy Podcast: Mastering the Art of Boundaries

Online Courses & Support for Partners Moving Beyond Betrayal

Complete Moving Beyond Betrayal Library

Formal Therapeutic Disclosure/Polygraph Presentation Bundle

Moving Beyond Betrayal Clinicians & Coaches Course

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