Survive & Thrive Membership Community
Specialized Guidance, Support & Connection for Betrayed Partners
Confidential Online Community + Access to Trauma & Addiction Specialist
If you're dealing with the impact of the discovery of chronic sexual betrayal, you’re probably wondering:
Can my relationship survive chronic betrayal or addiction?
Will I ever trust—him, her, anyone—again?
Am I crazy for thinking there’s something wrong with his (or her) behavior?
Where can I get the right help and support I need with all the shame, stigma, and misinformation about chronic infidelity and sex addiction?
Is it my fault that he (or she) was unfaithful?
Is it okay for me to ask for trust-building, relationship-restoring actions from my spouse?
How long do I have to wait to find out if my relationship can be saved?
About Vicki (Survive & Thrive Membership Community Host)
I'm Vicki Tidwell Palmer, author of Moving Beyond Betrayal: The 5-Step Boundary Solution for Partners of Sex Addicts, and host of a weekly podcast, Beyond Bitchy: Mastering the Art of Boundaries.
I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), and Somatic Experiencing Practitioner.
I love sharing my knowledge and expertise — as well as the experience and wisdom accumulated from 31+ years of my own healing and recovery journey — with people who are ready to learn, grow, and transform their lives.
My mission is to help you move beyond betrayal into a life of clarity, power, and connection.
If you want to cross what may feel like a very deep divide between surviving and thriving, you must learn and cultivate five key capabilities—the Survive & Thrive Blueprint:
Learn how to practice exquisite self-care—turning your attention toward yourself and away from over-focusing on the person who betrayed you.
Individualized support and guidance—for your unique situation and circumstances—from a community of partners and a trauma, addiction, and betrayal expert.
Share connection with a supportive and validating community of partners traveling the same courageous journey you're on.
Unfortunately, partners sometimes make the mistake of believing that when their spouse stops engaging in compulsive, relationship-destroying behaviors, all their problems will be solved.
Or, they make the mistake of asking for either too much or too little from the person who betrayed them—slowing down the process of healing and restoring their relationship.
And because of the stigma and shame of sexual betrayal and addiction, betrayed partners are extremely isolated.
You may (understandably) have chosen not to share your painful reality with anyone—even your closest friends and family members.
Most partners don't, for very good reasons.
Community membership is ideal for partners who:
Are in the early stages of discovery or disclosure of chronic sexual betrayal, or who are further along in their healing process but want a place to connect, deepen their knowledge, and support other partners.
May have limited—or no—local access to a supportive community or a professional who is knowledgable and experienced in working with intimate partner betrayal, relational trauma, and sex addiction.
Want expert guidance and information about how to cope after intimate partner betrayal.
Want to connect with other partners dealing with similar issues.
Want to take action toward their own healing and empowerment.
Survive & Thrive Membership Community is designed to help you navigate the painful—yet achievable—journey from trauma to trust.
As a Community Member you get:
Confidential online community
Where you’ll get information, guidance, and connection with partners from all over the world, plus exclusive access to a trauma and addiction specialist.
Two weekly Community Hours
Two weekly Community Hours every Tuesday night and Saturday afternoon, where you can connect and chat with other Community members in real time, in addition to 24/7 access to the online Community.
Two monthly Live Q&A Calls with Vicki
All members get bi-monthly (twice per month) 75-Minute Q&A Calls with Vicki every other Wednesday morning where you can get your questions answered directly from an experienced addiction and trauma specialist. (Premium members can ask questions confidentially by submitting them directly to me in the “Ask Vicki” area inside the Community or live on the Q&A Call.) All Q&A Calls are recorded and available online within 24 hours.
For Premium members
An "Ask Vicki" section where you can ask Vicki questions online and get laser coaching in between the the Live Q&A Calls (Premium Membership only).
Private personal profile
Personal profile settings you customize and control to protect your privacy and confidentiality. You are in complete control of how and when you share any information with other Community members.
Bonus information and resources
Bonus information and resources including complimentary access to special presentations, guidelines for formal therapeutic disclosure, in-house separation, recovery check-ins, Frequently Asked Questions and more.
20% off on all online courses and products
20% off bonus on all online courses and products I offer while you're a member of the Community.
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Everything in Survive & Thrive Essentials, plus:
If we were to work together—one-on-one—only for the twice monthly Live Q&A Calls, your cost would be $750 per month.
But I want betrayed partners everywhere to have access to the support, information, and expert guidance that I know can make the difference between staying stuck for years—even decades—or moving into clarity, empowerment, and connection.
FAQs & Membership Details
What happens after you join?
You’ll get access to the Community as soon as we get your answers to a brief questionnaire. Then you can:
Log in, personalize your profile settings, and introduce yourself to other Community members
Join member discussions in process
Access the Q&A Call recordings already available in the Live Q&A Call Archives (there are now more than 50 hours of Q&A Call recordings available)
Learn more about the Survive & Thrive Blueprint for healing
Listen to bonus presentations: polygraph and formal therapeutic disclosure (Premium members only) replays.
If you're a Premium Member, visit the Ask Vicki section and ask her a question!