Vicki Tidwell Palmer

Survive & Thrive Membership Community

Specialized Support & Connection for Betrayed Partners

Confidential Online Community + Personalized Guidance from a Trauma and Addiction Specialist

JOIN NOW: 6-Months for $199
JOIN NOW: 1 Year for $379

If you're dealing with the impact of the discovery of chronic sexual betrayal, you’re probably wondering:

  • Can my relationship survive chronic betrayal or addiction?

  • Will I ever trust—him, her, anyone—again?

  • Am I crazy for thinking there’s something wrong with his (or her) behavior?

  • Where can I get the right help and support I need with all the shame, stigma, and misinformation about chronic infidelity and sex addiction?

  • Is it my fault that he (or she) was unfaithful?

  • Is it okay for me to ask for trust-building, relationship-restoring actions from my spouse?

  • How long do I have to wait to find out if my relationship can be saved?

If you've asked yourself any—or most—of these questions, here's what I want you to know: 

Having worked with betrayed partners for more than 10 years, I know that with information, guidance, and a community of support, partners can survive—and even thrive—after the devastating discovery of sex addiction or long-term, chronic betrayal.

Your relationship can survive. You can trust again. You're not crazy. It's not your fault.

And yes, you have a right to ask your spouse for specific actions that will rebuild trust and restore your relationship.

About Vicki (Survive & Thrive Membership Community Host)

I'm Vicki Tidwell Palmer, author of Moving Beyond Betrayal: The 5-Step Boundary Solution for Partners of Sex Addicts. I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), and a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner.

I love sharing my knowledge and expertise — as well as the experience and wisdom accumulated from 31+ years of my own healing and recovery journey — with people who are ready to learn, grow, and transform their lives.

My mission is to help you move beyond betrayal into a life of clarity, power, and connection.

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If you want to cross what may feel like a very deep divide between surviving and thriving, you must learn and cultivate five key capabilities—the Survive & Thrive Blueprint:

Learn how to practice exquisite self-care—turning your attention toward yourself and away from over-focusing on the person who betrayed you.

Have expert, specialized information about addiction recovery, your rights as a partner, formal therapeutic disclosure, and more.

Learn how to stand up for your needs and wants, and how identify, create, and maintain effective boundaries.

Have connection with a community of partners traveling the same courageous journey you're on.

Individualized support and guidance from a trauma, addiction, and betrayal expert.

Unfortunately, partners sometimes make the mistake of believing that if their spouse stops engaging in compulsive, relationship-destroying behaviors, all their problems will be solved.

Or, they make the mistake of asking for either too much or too little from the person who betrayed them—slowing down the process of healing and restoring their relationship.



And because of the stigma and shame surrounding sexual betrayal and addiction, betrayed partners are extremely isolated.

You may (understandably) have chosen not to share your painful reality with anyone—even your closest friends and family members.

Most partners don't.

Community membership is ideal for partners who:

  • Are in the early stages of discovery or disclosure of chronic sexual betrayal, or who are further along in their healing process but want a place to connect, deepen their knowledge, and support other partners.

  • May have limited—or no—local access to a supportive community or a professional who is knowledgable and experienced in working with intimate partner betrayal and sex addiction.

  • Want expert guidance and information about how to cope after intimate partner betrayal.

  • Want to connect with other partners dealing with similar issues.

  • Want to take action toward their own healing and empowerment.

Survive & Thrive Membership Community is designed to help you navigate the painful—yet achievable—journey from trauma to trust.

As a Community Member you get:

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A confidential online community where you’ll get information, guidance, and connection with partners from all over the globe, plus exclusive access to a trauma and addiction specialist.

Plus, you'll get access to two weekly Community Hours every Tuesday night and Saturday afternoon, where you can connect and chat with other Community members in real time.

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Bi-monthly (twice per month) 75-Minute Q&A Calls with me every other Wednesday morning where you can get your questions answered directly from an experienced addiction and trauma specialist. You can ask questions confidentially by submitting them directly to me in the “Mini Q&A Sessions” area of the Online Community or live on the Q&A Call. All Q&A Calls are recorded and available online within 24 hours after each call.

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Weekly "Mini Q&A Sessions" where I will choose one (or more) Community Member questions and provide laser coaching.

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Personal profile settings you customize and control to protect your privacy and confidentiality. You are in complete control of how and when you share any information with other Community members.

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Bonus information and resources including complimentary access to special presentations, guidelines for formal therapeutic disclosure, in-house separation, recovery check-ins, Frequently Asked Questions and more.

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20% bonus on all Online Courses and products I offer while you're a member of the Community.

With the support, knowledge, and tools you'll gain as a Survive & Thrive member, you will:

  • Gain clarity and confidence through connecting with other partners dealing with the same issues you're facing.

  • Reduce the isolation and loneliness that are a by-product of betrayal and addiction.

  • Increase your current set of skills and capabilities through learning from the collective wisdom of Community Members as well as access to an addiction and trauma specialist.

  • Feel more empowered because you have the validation and information you need.

If you'd like to claim these results for yourself, I'd love for you to join Survive & Thrive Membership Community!

Your Investment Options:

If we were to work together—one-on-one—only for the twice monthly Live Q&A Calls, your cost would be $750 per month.

But I want betrayed partners everywhere to have access to the support, information, and expert guidance that I know can make the difference between staying stuck for years—even decades—or moving into clarity, power, and connection.

There are 2 options for joining the Community*:

*Stay tuned for announcements about monthly membership options starting May 2018! 

6 Months for $199

$1.09/Day

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1 Year for $379

$1.03/Day ~ Save $18.25

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What happens after you join?

You’ll get access to the Community (via the log in credentials you create during the payment process) as soon as we get your answers to a brief questionnaire. Then you can:

  • Log in, personalize your profile settings, and introduce yourself to other Community members

  • Join member discussions in process

  • Access the Q&A Call recordings already available in the Live Q&A Call Archives (there are now more than 50 hours of Q&A Call recordings available)

  • Ask me questions in the Mini Q&A Sessions

Have questions about Survive & Thrive Membership Community not addressed here?
Contact us at questions@vickitidwellpalmer.com