Vicki Tidwell Palmer

Survive & Thrive Membership Community

Specialized Guidance, Support & Connection for Betrayed Partners

Confidential Online Community + Access to Trauma & Addiction Specialist

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If you're dealing with the impact of the discovery of chronic sexual betrayal, you’re probably wondering:

  • Can my relationship survive chronic betrayal or addiction?

  • Will I ever trust—him, her, anyone—again?

  • Am I crazy for thinking there’s something wrong with his (or her) behavior?

  • Where can I get the right help and support I need with all the shame, stigma, and misinformation about chronic infidelity and sex addiction?

  • Is it my fault that he (or she) was unfaithful?

  • Is it okay for me to ask for trust-building, relationship-restoring actions from my spouse?

  • How long do I have to wait to find out if my relationship can be saved?

If you've asked yourself any—or most—of these questions, here's what I want you to know:

Having worked with betrayed partners for more than 11 years, I know that with information, guidance, and a community of support, partners can survive—and even thrive—after the devastating discovery of chronic sexual betrayal or a spouse's addiction.

Your relationship can survive. You can trust again. You're not crazy. It's not your fault.

And yes, you have a right to ask your unfaithful spouse for specific actions that will rebuild trust and restore your relationship.

I can show you how.

About Vicki (Survive & Thrive Membership Community Host)

I'm Vicki Tidwell Palmer, author of Moving Beyond Betrayal: The 5-Step Boundary Solution for Partners of Sex Addicts, and host of a weekly podcast, Beyond Bitchy: Mastering the Art of Boundaries.

I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), and Somatic Experiencing Practitioner.

I love sharing my knowledge and expertise — as well as the experience and wisdom accumulated from 31+ years of my own healing and recovery journey — with people who are ready to learn, grow, and transform their lives.

My mission is to help you move beyond betrayal into a life of clarity, power, and connection.

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If you want to cross what may feel like a very deep divide between surviving and thriving, you must learn and cultivate five key capabilities—the Survive & Thrive Blueprint:

self-care

Learn how to practice exquisite self-care—turning your attention toward yourself and away from over-focusing on the person who betrayed you.

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Have expert, specialized information about addiction recovery, your rights as a partner, formal therapeutic disclosure, and more.

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Individualized support and guidance—for your unique situation and circumstances—from a community of partners and a trauma, addiction, and betrayal expert.

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Share connection with a supportive and validating community of partners traveling the same courageous journey you're on.

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Learn how to identify and voice your needs and wants, and how identify, create, and maintain healthy and effective boundaries.

Unfortunately, partners sometimes make the mistake of believing that when their spouse stops engaging in compulsive, relationship-destroying behaviors, all their problems will be solved.

Or, they make the mistake of asking for either too much or too little from the person who betrayed them—slowing down the process of healing and restoring their relationship.

And because of the stigma and shame of sexual betrayal and addiction, betrayed partners are extremely isolated.

You may (understandably) have chosen not to share your painful reality with anyone—even your closest friends and family members.

Most partners don't, for very good reasons.

Community membership is ideal for partners who:

  • Are in the early stages of discovery or disclosure of chronic sexual betrayal, or who are further along in their healing process but want a place to connect, deepen their knowledge, and support other partners.

  • May have limited—or no—local access to a supportive community or a professional who is knowledgable and experienced in working with intimate partner betrayal, relational trauma, and sex addiction.

  • Want expert guidance and information about how to cope after intimate partner betrayal.

  • Want to connect with other partners dealing with similar issues.

  • Want to take action toward their own healing and empowerment.

Survive & Thrive Membership Community is designed to help you navigate the painful—yet achievable—journey from trauma to trust.

As a Community Member you get:

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    Confidential online community

    Where you’ll get information, guidance, and connection with partners from all over the world, plus exclusive access to a trauma and addiction specialist.

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    Two weekly Community Hours

    Two weekly Community Hours every Tuesday night and Saturday afternoon, where you can connect and chat with other Community members in real time, in addition to 24/7 access to the online Community.

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    Two monthly Live Q&A Calls with Vicki

    All members get bi-monthly (twice per month) 75-Minute Q&A Calls with Vicki every other Wednesday morning where you can get your questions answered directly from an experienced addiction and trauma specialist. (Premium members can ask questions confidentially by submitting them directly to me in the “Ask Vicki” area inside the Community or live on the Q&A Call.) All Q&A Calls are recorded and available online within 24 hours.

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    For Premium members

    An "Ask Vicki" section where you can ask Vicki questions online and get laser coaching in between the the Live Q&A Calls (Premium Membership only).

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    Private personal profile

    Personal profile settings you customize and control to protect your privacy and confidentiality. You are in complete control of how and when you share any information with other Community members.

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    Bonus information and resources

    Bonus information and resources including complimentary access to special presentations, guidelines for formal therapeutic disclosure, in-house separation, recovery check-ins, Frequently Asked Questions and more.

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    20% off on all online courses and products

    20% off bonus on all online courses and products I offer while you're a member of the Community.

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    Access to all Clarity Circle Coaching Call Replays

With the support, knowledge, and tools you'll gain as a Survive & Thrive member, you will:

  • Gain clarity and confidence through connecting with other partners dealing with the same issues you're facing.

  • Reduce the isolation and loneliness that are a by-product of betrayal and addiction.

  • Increase your current set of skills and capabilities through learning from the collective wisdom of Community Members as well as access to an addiction and trauma specialist.

  • Feel more empowered because you have the validation and information you need.

If you'd like to claim these results for yourself, I'd love for you to join Survive & Thrive Membership Community!

Survive & Thrive

Essentials

  • Confidential Online Community of Support
  • Biweekly Community Hour (Connect with Community members in real time)
  • Two Monthly 75-Minute Live Q&A Calls with Vicki (All calls are recorded)
  • Live Q&A Call Archive (includes all Q&A calls beginning August 2016)
  • Survive & Thrive Blueprint Lessons ($59 value)
  • 85-Minute Recorded Polygraph Presentation ($9.95 value)
  • 20% Bonus on products & services purchased during Membership
  • Bonus information and resources not available anywhere else
  • Completely private/confidential personal profile

Essentials

$3995/mo*

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Survive & Thrive

Premium

Everything in Survive & Thrive Essentials, plus:

  • Ask Vicki questions online in the "Ask Vicki" Section
  • Quarterly Bonus Live Q&A Call with Vicki for Course questions
  • 110-Minute Pre-recorded Formal Therapeutic Disclosure Presentation ($19.95 value)
  • Moving Beyond Betrayal eBook ($10 value)
  • Taming Triggers Solution Course ($225 value)*
  • Partner's Boundaries Course ($399 value)**

Premium

$5995/mo*

JOIN NOW

If we were to work together—one-on-one—only for the twice monthly Live Q&A Calls, your cost would be $750 per month.

But I want betrayed partners everywhere to have access to the support, information, and expert guidance that I know can make the difference between staying stuck for years—even decades—or moving into clarity, empowerment, and connection.

FAQs & Membership Details

*Taming Solutions Triggers Course for Premium Members

Taming Triggers Solution Course is presented in 11 lessons, released in 8 weekly installments beginning the second week of your membership. Membership subscription must be active to receive full course content.

**Partner’s Boundaries Course for Premium Members

The Partner’s Boundaries Course is presented in 24 lessons released in 15 weekly installments beginning week 11 of your membership. Membership subscription must be active to receive and maintain access to full course content.

(Past participants of Taming Triggers Solution Online Course or Moving Beyond Betrayal Partner’s Boundaries Online Course may choose to start either course at the beginning of their membership.)

Cancellations, Upgrades & Refunds:

Memberships are recurring monthly subscriptions that may be canceled at any time. S&T Essentials memberships may be upgraded to S&T Premium membership at any time.

Because Survive & Thrive Membership Community is a digital product, and due to the private and confidential nature of members’ personal information, no refunds (full or partial) will be issued for Survive & Thrive Membership Community subscriptions.

What happens after you join?

You’ll get access to the Community as soon as we get your answers to a brief questionnaire. Then you can:

  • Log in, personalize your profile settings, and introduce yourself to other Community members

  • Join member discussions in process

  • Access the Q&A Call recordings already available in the Live Q&A Call Archives (there are now more than 50 hours of Q&A Call recordings available)

  • Learn more about the Survive & Thrive Blueprint for healing

  • Listen to bonus presentations: polygraph and formal therapeutic disclosure (Premium members only) replays.

  • If you're a Premium Member, visit the Ask Vicki section and ask her a question!

Have questions about Survive & Thrive Membership Community not answered here?
Contact us at questions@vickitidwellpalmer.com