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Moving Beyond Betrayal:

The 5-Step Boundary Solution for Partners of Sex Addicts

Survivors of betrayal trauma experience dire consequences from the devastating impact of serial infidelity. You need the very best in self-care and self-protection as you navigate the difficult and painful process of discovery, disclosure, and beyond. In other words—you need boundaries. Moving Beyond Betrayal is the first book for partners affected by chronic sexual betrayal that guides you through a step-by-step process of identifying, creating, and maintaining boundaries as a vital component of self-care and an indispensable tool for your healing and growth. Available in paperback, Kindle, and audiobook. Purchase Here


Finally. THE book to help partners of sex addicts reclaim the most powerful part of their life after suffering from intimate betrayal! Alexandra Katehakis, Founder and Clinical Director, Center for Healthy Sex

Meet Vicki

Vicki is the best-selling author of Moving Beyond Betrayal, host of the Beyond Bitchy Podcast: Mastering the Art of Boundaries, and blogger for Thriving After Betrayal blog, ranked one of the Top 15 Infidelity Blogs and Websites To Follow in 2019

Her latest project, unveiled on International Women’s Day 2020, is Unveiling Tiamat | The Radiant Threefold Path. The RTP is a journey of reclamation for women to discover and reclaim their unique, authentic feminine essence.

She has presented at national conferences, for The Meadows Lecture Series, 12-step communities, as well as professional, healthcare, and faith-based organizations on a variety of topics including boundaries, relational trauma, and mindfulness.

Vicki is a Licensed, Clinical Social Worker, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) and a Somatic Experiencing® Practitioner (SEP) based in Houston, Texas. Vicki has trained with Pia MellodyDrs. John & Julie GottmanTerry Real, and Sue Johnson,

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Time to Thrive

In the Fall of 2013 when I decided to write a book about boundaries for partners, I began with an outline that became Moving Beyond Betrayal, and decided to start a blog as a way to write the book. The blog was originally named Survival Strategies for Partners of Sex Addicts, and the first article… Continue Reading…

Life Can Only Be Found in the Present Moment

Over the past two weeks as most of us in the US have necessarily entered into various forms of shelter in place or stay at home conditions, life has become more simple, more immediate, and in many ways more intensely intimate. I’ve heard heart-warming stories from clients about closer connections with spouses and children, more… Continue Reading…

Healing Begins With You

Healing Starts With You

I’ll get right to the point: emotional healing is an inside job. I know, because over the years I’ve experienced a multitude of emotional wounds — many self-inflicted, some having no obvious explanation, and some inflicted on me by another person’s unconsciousness or cruelty. Regardless of who or what was “at fault” for my pain,… Continue Reading…

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