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Moving Beyond Betrayal:

The 5-Step Boundary Solution for Partners of Sex Addicts

Survivors of betrayal trauma experience dire consequences from the devastating impact of serial infidelity. You need the very best in self-care and self-protection as you navigate the difficult and painful process of discovery, disclosure, and beyond. In other words—you need boundaries. Moving Beyond Betrayal is the first book for partners affected by chronic sexual betrayal that guides you through a step-by-step process of identifying, creating, and maintaining boundaries as a vital component of self-care and an indispensable tool for your healing and growth. Available in paperback, Kindle, and audiobook. Purchase Here


Finally. THE book to help partners of sex addicts reclaim the most powerful part of their life after suffering from intimate betrayal! Alexandra Katehakis, Founder and Clinical Director, Center for Healthy Sex

Meet Vicki

Vicki is the best-selling author of Moving Beyond Betrayal, host of the Beyond Bitchy Podcast: Mastering the Art of Boundaries, and blogger for Survival Strategies for Betrayed Partners blog, ranked one of the Top 15 Infidelity Blogs and Websites To Follow in 2019. She is an expert on personal and relationship boundaries, and relational trauma. 

She has presented at national conferences, for The Meadows Lecture Series, 12-step communities, as well as professional, healthcare, and faith-based organizations on a variety of topics including boundaries, relational trauma, and mindfulness.

Vicki is a Licensed, Clinical Social Worker, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) and a Somatic Experiencing® Practitioner (SEP) based in Houston, Texas. Vicki has trained with Pia MellodyDrs. John & Julie GottmanTerry Real, and Sue Johnson,

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Latest posts from: Survival Strategies for Betrayed Partners

Infidelity Blogs

It All Starts With Self-Care

Thanks for your comments on the blog from my last post, Your Roadmap for Healing! Linda described so well what many betrayed partners experience as they search for answers at the beginning their journey: I am so grateful that you are setting forth the map to recovery in black and white. For me, I experienced… Continue Reading…

Your Roadmap For Healing

If I were to tell you that there is a roadmap out of the insanity, chaos, and despair of betrayal would you want it for yourself? I hope so, because you are 100% worth it — and more. When you, as a betrayed partner, have a roadmap for healing, these are just a few of… Continue Reading…

Give Yourself the Gift of Self-Love on Valentine’s Day

Are you dreading Valentine’s Day or just trying to ignore it and hope that it passes as soon as possible? You’re not alone. I have rarely met a woman who truly enjoys and looks forward to Valentine’s Day. Most of us — even before betrayal or addiction entered our lives — have endured painful and… Continue Reading…

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New 5-part Mini-Course Beginning March 1!

Join Vicki March 1 for a 5-part online course where Vicki will teach the roadmap for healing for betrayed partners.

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