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Moving Beyond Betrayal:

The 5-Step Boundary Solution for Partners of Sex Addicts

Survivors of betrayal trauma experience dire consequences from the devastating impact of serial infidelity. You need the very best in self-care and self-protection as you navigate the difficult and painful process of discovery, disclosure, and beyond. In other words—you need boundaries. Moving Beyond Betrayal is the first book for partners affected by chronic sexual betrayal that guides you through a step-by-step process of identifying, creating, and maintaining boundaries as a vital component of self-care and an indispensable tool for your healing and growth.

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Finally. THE book to help partners of sex addicts reclaim the most powerful part of their life after suffering from intimate betrayal!

Alexandra Katehakis, Founder and Clinical Director, Center for Healthy Sex

Meet Vicki

Vicki is the author of Moving Beyond Betrayal, host of the Beyond Bitchy Podcast: Mastering the Art of Boundaries, and is an expert on personal and relationship boundaries, as well as relational trauma. 

She has presented at national conferences, for The Meadows Lecture Series, 12-step communities, as well as professional, healthcare, and faith-based organizations on a variety of topics including boundaries, relational trauma, and mindfulness.

Vicki is a Licensed, Clinical Social Worker, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) and a Somatic Experiencing® Practitioner (SEP) based in Houston, Texas. Vicki has trained with Pia MellodyDrs. John & Julie GottmanTerry Real, and Sue Johnson,

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Staggered disclosure is an unfortunate—yet extremely common—experience for betrayed partners. Staggered disclosure is when a betrayed partner receives repeated and incomplete information about her spouse’s unfaithful actions or sexual acting out either directly from him (or her) or indirectly through intentional or unintentional discovery. For example, her spouse may tell her a story about a particular… Continue Reading…

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