Moving Beyond Betrayal
Partner's Boundaries Online Course
Next Course Starts September 7
Partners of sex addicts and survivors of infidelity experience dire consequences as a result of intimate partner betrayal.
As a partner of a sex addict you’re probably asking:
Can a relationship survive sex addiction and chronic betrayal?
How can I know whether or not my partner is still lying about his extra-marital activities?
Is it possible to ever trust him (or her) again?
Do I have a right to ask my partner to engage in specific trust-restoring actions?
Is there anything I can do to make sure that my partner can never deceive me again the way that he (or she) did in the past?
If you've asked yourself any—or most—of these questions, here's what I want you to know:
Having worked with betrayed partners for over 9 years, I know that with information, guidance, and a community of support, partners can survive — and even thrive — after the devastating discovery of sex addiction or long-term, chronic betrayal.
Your emotional well-being requires that you educate yourself — and develop new skills for self-care and self-protection — as you confront the difficult and painful process of discovery, disclosure, and beyond.
In other words — you need boundaries.
About Vicki (Moving Beyond Betrayal Partner's Boundaries Course Facilitator)
I'm Vicki Tidwell Palmer, author of Moving Beyond Betrayal: The 5-Step Boundary Solution for Partners of Sex Addicts.
Moving Beyond Betrayal is the only book for partners of sex addicts that addresses — in detail — how to identify, create, and maintain effective boundaries as an essential tool for surviving and healing from intimate partner betrayal.
I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), and a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner.
My mission is to help partners move beyond betrayal into a life of clarity, power, and connection.
I love sharing my knowledge and expertise — as well as the experience and wisdom accumulated from 30+ years of my own healing and recovery journey — with people who are ready to learn, grow, and transform their lives.
Moving Beyond Betrayal Partner's Boundaries Course is specially designed for you — to help you learn how to identify, create, and maintain boundaries as a vital component of self-care and an indispensable tool for your healing and growth.
If you want to learn how to use boundaries to create safety and discover whether or not your relationship is salvageable, you must:
Learn the specific skills and tools that will help you regain trust and confidence in your own reality
Know the difference between authentic power, “power over,” and powerlessness.
Understand how to make effective requests of your partner—instead of using ultimatums, demands or threats.
Learn how to identify needs that aren't being met in your life and your relationship
Be willing to take action around what you have power over
Know how to evaluate the results of your boundary work to determine if your goal has been accomplished, and how to make course corrections when needed.
Know what to do when boundaries are violated or broken.
Unfortunately, partners often make the mistake of asking for either too little or too much from the person who betrayed them, or they get stuck in the victim position — paralyzing them from making meaningful progress.
Here’s one of the best-kept secrets about boundaries:
A partner’s ability to practice effective boundaries
is the quickest route to finding out whether or not her (or his) relationship is salvageable.
With better boundaries, you’ll reduce the pain, disappointment, and chaos that go hand-in-hand with the fog of addiction.
Moving Beyond Betrayal Partner’s Boundaries Course is ideal for partners who:
Have just experienced discovery or disclosure and need expert information and guidance about the boundary-setting process.
Have read my book, Moving Beyond Betrayal: The 5-Step Boundary Solution for Partners of Sex Addicts, and want to take their knowledge about boundaries and the 5-Step Boundary Solution to the next level and work directly with me.
Want the connection and support of other survivors of intimate partner betrayal who are working on creating and maintaining better boundaries.
Have little — or no — understanding of the way boundaries work.
Experienced repeated boundary violations in childhood and are confused about — or struggle to claim — their right to set boundaries.
Are ready to take meaningful action to create greater safety, self-care, and improve their overall sense of well-being.
What's Included in the Partner's Boundaries Course*:
6 Modules with 24 Lessons (Audio & Video) released weekly beginning January 12
The 5-Step Boundary Solution QuickStart Guide
The 5-Step Boundary Solution Clarifier fillable PDF to record your work
75-Minute Live Q&A Call with me (recorded and available within 24 hours for anyone who can't join the live call)
“Mini Online Q&A Sessions” where you can get laser feedback about the boundary-setting process before the Live Q&A Call.
Online confidential community forum where you can connect with other course participants (and me) for feedback and support. Personal profile settings allow you to protect your privacy and confidentiality. You are in complete control of how and when you share any information with other Course participants.
Select audio excerpts from Moving Beyond Betrayal: The 5-Step Boundary Solution for Partners of Sex Addicts read by the author.
*Except for the Live Q&A Call, all modules are completed at your own pace and on your own schedule.
With the knowledge, tools, and support you’ll get from Moving Beyond Betrayal Partner's Boundaries Course, you will:
Experience greater clarity and confidence in your ability to establish and maintain effective boundaries.
Reduce the level of chaos inherent in relationships impacted by sex addiction and intimate partner betrayal.
Feel more empowered and in control of your life.
Discover whether or not your relationship is salvageable.
Reduce isolation and loneliness—a by-product of betrayal and addiction—by connecting with other partners traveling the same path.
Feel more empowered because you have the validation and information you need.
If you'd like to claim these results for yourself, I'd love for you to join me for the Partner’s Boundaries Course!
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What happens after you register for Moving Beyond Betrayal Partner’s Boundaries Online Course?
You’ll get a welcome email with more information and details about accessing the Course (including the date for the Live Q&A Call) once it launches.
Module 1 will be released on the first day of the course, and the following 5 Modules will be released weekly thereafter. You’ll get immediate access to the community forum where you can begin by personalizing your profile settings and connecting with other members of the Course.
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